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‘My situationship went from loving to cruel overnight - he’s degraded me every day’
In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who wants to understand why their situationship has gone from having zero red flags to being cruel with his words
Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. He got drunk one night, messaged me normally and then when he asked to come around and I said ‘no thank you, I’m not in the mood’, he responded with really cruel comments about the fact that he wouldn’t let anyone around either if he had my face. Perhaps he’s using pick-up artist techniques that teach men to love bomb women by being really kind and then turning nasty, giving the silent treatment and changing character completely because apparently women like being treated badly (according to the logic of the nefarious characters who teach this stuff) and it hooks us in.
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