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'My partner would rather live with his brother than me - I can't see a future'


Our relationships expert, Lala, helps a reader who would like to plan a future with her 44 year old boyfriend but he has other plans and would like to stay flat sharing with his brother

Every week, thousands flock to her for answers to their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her humorous, straightforward approach to love and relationships has made her the go-to guru for feel-good advice. You are a woman who wants to have a family, presumably children, and to begin carving out a settled stable home and life with the man who you have called your partner for the past three years. He is prioritising his comfort and routine over progressing the relationship with you, and it is selfish of him to expect you to put this all on hold indefinitely, you are not 22, and his lack of consideration for that fact is not a good sign.

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