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'My ex-fling is my daughter's daddy but he's refusing to be involved in her life - blaming me for the pregnancy'


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who is struggling with encouraging her ex-fling to have involvement in their daughter's life

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. One reader asks Lala for advice on a 'flaky' father who holds grudges against her (Image: Getty Images/iStockphoto) Read MoreRelated Articles ‘My sister was abused during childhood - now she wants me to cut our brother off’ Arguing will drive him further away, and whilst it’s not your responsibility to hold your tongue and pander to his flakiness, if your end goal is some sort of relationship between the two of them then you’re going to have to play his manipulative game.

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