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‘My ex had a double life and bought an engagement ring for another woman - I can’t move on’


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who discovered that their ex had been living a double life - and claims his friends and family knew

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. This is such a horrible situation that is sadly so common, I cannot tell you how many messages I get from women who have discovered that their boyfriend is in fact someone else’s husband or from girlfriends or wives who find out that their partner was with another woman when he said he was at work. So, in terms of moving forward to future relationships you should acknowledge that you do have good intuition, you do know what the red flags are - the difference is that next time you will have learnt and you will hopefully listen to your gut and run the second that you get an inkling that something is off.

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