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‘My baby’s dad doesn’t want to be involved – I just wish I could change things’


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who is struggling to move forward after discovering that her child's father doesn't want anything to do with their baby

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. When your child asks in the future, you can give them age appropriate answers like "Your dad wasn’t ready to be a parent, but that’s not your fault, and you are very loved." There is definitely a chance that he has more children, but I would strongly advise you to get some therapy and get yourself down to a mum and baby group in your local area where you can build a support network.

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