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‘My 29 year old brother is dating an 18 year old - I’ve not met her but I’m weirded out’


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who is feeling "so weird" about their sibling's new relationship which has an 11-year age gap

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. In terms of the specifics of this relationship, as your brother is in University as a mature student his current life circumstances may be closer to an 18 year old than your average adult, and they also have adoption in common. You don’t need to be accusatory or confrontational but if you’re able to, having a compassionate but realistic conversation about his role within this age gap and the issues that the power dynamic might create.

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