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‘I keep attracting abusive men - I think there must be something wrong with me’
In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who thinks there is a reason why they keep attracting bad men after being ghosted and unfollowed by a recent date
Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. Chatting to you for months, being interested in you, that probably all felt really nice, and it can be hard to spot the red flags that show that this is all about sex for them, because they do such a good job of being great in the lead up. It’s not foolproof, some manipulators are in it for the long haul, but waiting until you’ve had lots of dates and you’re in something more established before getting intimate can help to weed out the users.
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