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‘I had an affair with a man who love bombed and led me on - now I want to warn people about him’
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Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer your relationship and dating dilemmas (Image: GETTY) Read MoreRelated Articles ‘I found the father of my child on Grindr - I feel like he’s used me to live a double life’ He has since split from his girlfriend – unrelated to our situation – and has gone from asking me to move in unromantically (as he noted he no longer has feelings) to gaslighting me for calling him out on his behaviour and saying I severely affected his mental health for telling him what I thought of him disrespecting women and how he hurt me. If I’m getting it right it sounds like you began an affair with him knowing he had a girlfriend (you said your own actions knocked your sense of self) because he made you feel amazing (love bombing) but then gave you hot and cold contact and mixed messaging (breadcrumbing).
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