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‘An open marriage is the only solution to my husband’s cheating - he doesn’t believe in monogamy’


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, Lala replies to a reader who wants to save her four-year marriage, but is concerned about their husband's constant cheating

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. It sounds like he holds the power in this relationship and that you’re expected to submit and relinquish your boundaries in order to maintain the status quo. Most polyamorous people I know read books about communication, attend talks and workshops about relationships, build community, search for peer support and speak to their therapist to gain a deeper understanding of themselves - it sounds like your husband just wants to do whatever he wants with no repercussions, all whilst still having a wife and a home to come back to afterwards.

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