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'My boyfriend's domestic abuse beliefs worry me - I feel sick'
Our relationships expert, Lala, helps a reader who needs clarity on domestic abuse after being left shocked by her boyfriend's casual opinions on it, leaving her sick to the stomach
Every week, thousands flock to her for answers to their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her humorous, straightforward approach to love and relationships has made her the go-to guru for feel-good advice. The belief that women enjoy being abused is an age old misogynistic trope that seeks to blame the victim and absolve the male perpetrator. His unevolved views don’t necessarily signal that this man is going to be a bad partner, but for me this would be a turn-off because it’s just so lacking in thought and empathy.
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