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'I had an abortion - but now I don't know if it's ruined my future with my partner'


In this week's Lalalaletmeexplain column, one reader asks for advice after she had an abortion and felt that her partner didn't support her in the way she needed him to

Every week, thousands flock to her for answers to their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her humorous, straightforward approach to love and relationships has made her the go-to guru for feel-good advice. If things were amazing and he was a solid partner for a long time and then he lost it during the actual termination but has come back strongly remorseful and has actively engaged with therapy, then perhaps there might be something to redeem. But if things were OK and then this happened and you realised that you couldn’t trust him with the big stuff and that he doesn’t have the emotional bandwidth to be able to rely on him during the very hardest times then what is there to redeem?

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